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Im 30 years old, living in the North Canton region. North Canton Connecticut, USA , 30

I'm 30 years old, living in the North Canton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 46 and 92.

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looking for my heart desire to love New York New York, USA , 39

I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I

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Hoping to meet someone on here Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA , 45

Happy and jovial girl looking to meet new people on here

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Im 39 years old, living in the Bangor,Maine.. South Carver Massachusetts, USA , 53

Kind, respectful, devoted. Without bad habits. With good sense of humor.  Direct and honest, respectable. A person with whom you can feel in safety.

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Goddess looking for a sub to explore and train Edison New Jersey, USA , 30

I like feminizationy, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,   or pain.

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Love, Respect, Care, and Understanding partner Washington Virginia, USA , 45

I easily find contact with people, I am sociable, I strive for stability in emotions and relationships. I appreciate humor, it is important for me to laugh with those I love, it is also good for health.

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Im 30 years old, living in the Wyoming region. Wyoming Rhode Island, USA , 31

Am a cruel mommy of high class trained in the old and professional way here in search of new subs to train and humiliate

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Good communication skill , passionate Hudson New Hampshire, USA , 40

Affectionate , naught woman with a great sense of humor to be friends with

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Seeking for a male submissive, My submissive will also enjoy his mistress “Submi.. Tolland Connecticut, USA , 40

The Dom/sub relationship is built on trust. Trust develops over time and through experience with each other. I do not expect to do hard BDSM with a new sub in the first session. The type of physical control and the “hardness” of our BDSM activities would develop as I become more familiar with my sub and our trust in each other grows.

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Hi I’m Alora. I’m a girly girl that likes to get down and dirty. North Berwick Maine, USA , 31

I love photography, digital graphic design & animals.

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Im 39 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Baltimore Maryland, USA , 28

I'm 28 years old, living in the Baltimore region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 85.I don't drink I will travel for hookups

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Hello everyone I’m new on here New York New York, USA , 45

I'm 45 years old, living in the New York region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.

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just sort of looking around a bit Rochester New York, USA , 52

I'm a natural 38D, a bit 'curvy', multiorgasmic, love oral (receiving AND giving), love cum. NOT looking for romance (I'm married), but I am looking for sexy fun, be it a long-term fwb or just quickies on occasion. I'm looking for the excitement, satisfaction and pleasures that only sex with other men can give me.

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Im 44 years old, living in the Tennent region. Newark New Jersey, USA , 44

I'm 44 years old, living in the Tennent region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.

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Looking for a older submissive male and also available for all kinds to fun . I .. Florida New York, USA , 28

I’m a dominant female and looking for a potential submissive to explore the bdsm lifestyle together

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My experience in the Domination scene started at the age of 19 for Me, I had alw.. Trenton New Jersey, USA , 30

Whether you choose to meet with Me only once or reoccurring, I assure you that you will experience a discreet and safe encounter while you are in My presence and play space.

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I’m a generous woman and very loving,I can do a lot of things to make my man hap.. Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA , 38

I’m always happy when I have the right person with me

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How about sitting on your face for multiple orgasms.. i believe that in true fri.. Fairfax Virginia, USA , 38

I’m Optimistic,  Adventurous,  Happy,  Kind,  loyal,  modest,  Friendly,  positive Thinking. I’m your sex-drive.

I’m Innovative,  Sweet,  Romantic,  Funny,  Caring,  adventurous,  affectionate ,

I am a fun loving lady, always by myself too much lately.


Someone to enjoy very good casual sex with 5 times a week .

Are you interested…!!!

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I am me, very creative and artistic. I love working on my house and digging in m.. Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA , 74

playing a piano and spending quality time with my man!!

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I am a gorgeous mistress seeking for a sub to make them please me with so many p.. New York, New York , 40

I am calm and out I have the cutest fun ideas for you

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Im 47 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA , 47

Fun, lively, easy to get along and kind hearted, supportive and hardworking

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Looking for a sex toy to be owned by me Pennsville New Jersey, USA , 37

I'm mistress Isabella ,and I've been into the lifestyle for over 11years now and trained 3 toys
before now

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Curvy, sexy, and smart red head! Hartford Connecticut, USA , 23

23 year old plus size model and content creator. Also am chronically ill, but very outgoing and creative!

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Hey there, Im mistress jen and Im good with what I do as a Dom and need a very.. Darien Connecticut, USA , 32

Being very submissive to my satisfaction is important to me with lots of pleasures

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Ready to experiment with you and your friends :) Springfield Massachusetts, USA , 38, 32

We are open to alot, Mark can switch and Alyssa is the same. Looking for singles or couples or more haha.

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